{"type":"video","version":"1.0","html":"<iframe src=\"https://www.loom.com/embed/3ceaa748187442c39676da9c698cb4c4\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"1306\" height=\"979\" webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen></iframe>","height":979,"width":1306,"provider_name":"Loom","provider_url":"https://www.loom.com","thumbnail_height":979,"thumbnail_width":1306,"thumbnail_url":"https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/3ceaa748187442c39676da9c698cb4c4-47d613382d1a947d-full.jpg","duration":1856.03,"title":"Transforming Your Marriage: From Sorry-Ass Sherpa to Badass Belayer 🏔️","description":"In this video, I share my journey from frustration and resentment in my marriage to finding a beautiful partnership with my wife, Zelda, after over three decades together. I discuss how many men, including myself, often take on the role of an emotional Sherpa, carrying the burdens of their partners without expressing their own needs. I introduce the metaphor of belaying in rock climbing to illustrate how men can shift from being overwhelmed Sherpas to becoming supportive belayers, helping their partners while also maintaining their own identity. I encourage viewers to reflect on their roles in relationships and to consider how they can better communicate their needs and support their partners. My hope is that by sharing these insights, you can create a more fulfilling and balanced relationship."}