{"type":"video","version":"1.0","html":"<iframe src=\"https://www.loom.com/embed/6c98b9fa8d2841f2b3a72b84147c0989\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1440\" webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen></iframe>","height":1440,"width":1920,"provider_name":"Loom","provider_url":"https://www.loom.com","thumbnail_height":1440,"thumbnail_width":1920,"thumbnail_url":"https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/6c98b9fa8d2841f2b3a72b84147c0989-f579a2002e39068c.gif","duration":331.72,"title":"Part 2 - Lesson 3 ","description":"This Loom explains how to respond when a man’s behavior feels confusing and questions like what is he thinking come up. The speaker says you cannot know what your man is thinking with certainty, warning against online “avoidance” narratives that create false certainty and lead to over-effort. Instead, they introduce a “breakup signals decoder,” offering possible meanings for silence, watching stories, or “I miss you” without plans, and caution against treating words as commitment. They advise focusing on consistency between actions and words and on the questions What do I actually know, what story am I adding, and what changes if I stop trying to predict him."}