{"type":"video","version":"1.0","html":"<iframe src=\"https://www.loom.com/embed/7c011021d4264222bd0cbc5cd2ca162f\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1440\" webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen></iframe>","height":1440,"width":1920,"provider_name":"Loom","provider_url":"https://www.loom.com","thumbnail_height":1440,"thumbnail_width":1920,"thumbnail_url":"https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/7c011021d4264222bd0cbc5cd2ca162f-c2fae556a7fd54ee.gif","duration":340.49015,"title":"Escaping Fear Mindset in Relationships","description":"This Loom explains how fear of being alone can lead to repeating wrong dating patterns and lowering standards. The speaker describes losing confidence after a three-year breakup at ages 18 and 19, feeling lonely due to not being happy with their own company, and fearing they would never find the right partner. They recount settling for people even when goals and red flags did not align, instead of accepting their true desires. With one year of change, they eventually attracted a long-term happy healthy relationship, emphasizing that escaping self-sabotage is key to attracting the right long-term partner."}