{"type":"video","version":"1.0","html":"<iframe src=\"https://www.loom.com/embed/a26ed28938e64c3ea669caed210f1fd4\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"1862\" height=\"1396\" webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen></iframe>","height":1396,"width":1862,"provider_name":"Loom","provider_url":"https://www.loom.com","thumbnail_height":1396,"thumbnail_width":1862,"thumbnail_url":"https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/a26ed28938e64c3ea669caed210f1fd4-0c2e056a765d1e2c.gif","duration":1594.674,"title":"Why Intimacy Dies Before Sex Disappears - Challenge video","description":"This Loom argues that dead bedrooms often stem from emotional disconnection and a flawed approach to “fixing” intimacy. The speaker recounts how intimacy avoidance can be driven by feeling emotionally unsafe and disconnected, not by a broken libido, and contrasts this with blame over sex becoming expected without emotional connection. They claim many men try logic and effort, including spicy cards, toys, 30 day intimacy challenges, and couples therapy, but argue the premise is wrong and that therapy often functions as “absolution” rather than a solution, suggesting a couples therapy follow only when separation is already likely. The Loom also asserts that libido can rebound quickly when the relationship ends or a new partner appears."}