{"type":"video","version":"1.0","html":"<iframe src=\"https://www.loom.com/embed/eb1f2d3413d04509a8f7a4bb7b52e0c0\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1440\" webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen></iframe>","height":1440,"width":1920,"provider_name":"Loom","provider_url":"https://www.loom.com","thumbnail_height":1440,"thumbnail_width":1920,"thumbnail_url":"https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/eb1f2d3413d04509a8f7a4bb7b52e0c0-99b7705cc54fb8ad.gif","duration":410.533333,"title":"Part 1 lesson 2","description":"This Loom addresses why a relationship suddenly shifts, leaving one partner quiet or pulling away, and what that uncertainty does to the other person. The speaker describes how the change can happen gradually or unexpectedly, such as a partner watching Instagram stories but not answering texts, sometimes within weeks of a match or even decades into a marriage. They emphasize that the hardest part is not the breakup but not knowing if you will be together and how long it will take, leading the mind to seek certainty and safety through blame and judgment. They caution against rushing to conclude either the other person or yourself is the sole problem and promise to explain in the next lesson why they will pull away and what dynamics need to be undone."}