<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/01a6b32750c142418ab62f0812e878b8&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1280&quot; height=&quot;960&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>960</height><width>1280</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>960</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1280</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/01a6b32750c142418ab62f0812e878b8-00001.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>94.2</duration><title>Understanding Alexithymia</title><description>In this video, I discuss the concept of alexithymia, which is a trait that affects approximately 10% of the population. It is particularly prevalent among individuals with ADHD and autism, with estimates ranging from 50 to 90%. Alexithymia refers to the difficulty in identifying and communicating emotions, which can pose challenges in interpersonal communication. I introduce a communication formula based on needs, which can be helpful for individuals who struggle with alexithymia.</description></oembed>