<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/0951a4a1d50d40bb8259d700f1d62f00&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1280&quot; height=&quot;960&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>960</height><width>1280</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>960</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1280</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/0951a4a1d50d40bb8259d700f1d62f00-00001.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>70.995</duration><title>Grief and Self-Care: Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations</title><description>In this video, I discuss the connection between grief and self-care. I emphasize the importance of letting go of the idea that we can meet all the demands of neurotypical society and achieve unrealistic expectations. This concept applies to anyone practicing self-care, yet it is rarely discussed. I highlight the need to mourn and accept the reality that the &quot;gold standard&quot; woman, or the perfect version of ourselves, is not attainable. Watch this video to gain insights on how to let go of unrealistic expectations and embrace true self-care.</description></oembed>