<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/0a91695e45854f3b93dacf1ba85284b7&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/0a91695e45854f3b93dacf1ba85284b7-4198f8996c36f37b.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>1734.843</duration><title>Your Approach To Gardening: How &apos;Going With The Flow&apos; Could Be Harming Your Friendships - And What To Do About It</title><description>In this video, I introduce the idea that many of us &apos;go with the flow&apos; in our friendships and explain how this approach can stand in the way of our ability to form meaningful connections, especially as we get older. I explain that this approach often involves letting others determine the pace and nature of our friendships, which can lead to missed opportunities for deeper connections. I encourage you to reflect on your own friendships and identify areas where you might be waiting for things to happen rather than being proactive and intentional. There’s a short exercise included in the learning portal to help you pinpoint where this pattern shows up in your life. Remember, you have more control over your friendships than you might think, and being intentional is key to building the relationships you truly desire.</description></oembed>