<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/18a789e532dc43308edc3abf2dc03e74&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/18a789e532dc43308edc3abf2dc03e74-5fc68498035105f0.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>169</duration><title>Understanding Backdraft in Self-Compassion</title><description>In this video, I discuss the concept of backdraft, which refers to the resistance and difficult emotions that can arise when we first practice self-compassion. It&apos;s important to recognize and validate these feelings, such as guilt or shame, as part of the process. I encourage you to acknowledge these sensations without judgment and to use soothing techniques, like gentle touch or redirecting your attention to something calming. Please keep this in mind as you explore self-compassion practices.</description></oembed>