<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/1fbd17b4dcaa4a1d89bf5f2ce88606c6&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/1fbd17b4dcaa4a1d89bf5f2ce88606c6-c6fdbbed702bda2c.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>93.697</duration><title>The Networking Flywheel</title><description>I explain networking as a compounding pyramid, where one conversation should turn into two, and two into four. I share a banking executive client who did everything right with ten calls a week but got zero referrals and zero recruiter intros because her calls ended with catch up and stay in touch. I argue your goal is continuation, not just connection. Every call should end with a specific name and an intro, and I give her the ask: who in your network would be open to connecting with me, and I can send a short blurb you can forward.</description></oembed>