<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/252e1191df2645278081f0938fe03ec2&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;3840&quot; height=&quot;2880&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>2880</height><width>3840</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>2880</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>3840</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/252e1191df2645278081f0938fe03ec2-85ffeb6d2f21f243-full.jpg</thumbnail_url><duration>60</duration><title>Finding Closure and Moving Forward</title><description>This Loom discusses the speaker’s struggle to regain composure and respond effectively after receiving a message. They say it is not enough to just seek closure and try to correct what they believe they read. The speaker notes there are no surprises and suggests this reflects how their life is, stating you could not write them.</description></oembed>