<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/3a163dfc5e614c278dc20335174072f4&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/3a163dfc5e614c278dc20335174072f4-2de2a89dfeea6946.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>268.18</duration><title>Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria in ADHD Explained</title><description>I explained how RSD shows up in many people with ADHD, and especially in ADHD women, likely due to chronic masking, social pressure, and years of being misunderstood. I described how ADHD brains struggle to regulate dopamine and emotional responses, and how social rejection activates brain areas like physical pain, so it can feel intensely painful and biologically real. I emphasized that your nervous system treats rejection as a threat and that RSD episodes are a protective survival response. I shared that the first step in an RSD episode is to create safety before you try to fix or reflect. No direct action was requested.</description></oembed>