<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/4367ceeb9b4a48b9895668930782a079&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1280&quot; height=&quot;960&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>960</height><width>1280</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>960</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1280</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/4367ceeb9b4a48b9895668930782a079-00001.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>745.404</duration><title>Biff: A Powerful Communication Tool for Difficult Situations 😊</title><description> In this video, I discuss the Biff approach, which stands for Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm. I explain how Biff was developed to handle high-conflict situations and can be used with hostile individuals. I share examples of Biff responses and provide tips on how to effectively use this communication tool. Biff helps diffuse hostile comments, focuses on problem-solving, and maintains a positive tone. It&apos;s a valuable tool for email and text communication, and I have personally used it with great success. Watch the video to learn more about Biff and how it can help you navigate challenging interactions.</description></oembed>