<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/49d2c4407fe2472cb4d6970d2642e034&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1910&quot; height=&quot;1432&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1432</height><width>1910</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1432</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1910</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/49d2c4407fe2472cb4d6970d2642e034-58a87a35e007159d.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>182.437</duration><title>Workbook Appendix for RSD Regulation Tools</title><description>I wanted to briefly point you to the appendix in your workbook. It is probably the most comprehensive workbook we have, and it includes a regulation tools menu with ideas for both regulation and distraction when you feel overwhelmed, and these tools can be used for more than just rejection sensitivity. I reference your personal RSD map, where you can look at triggers like criticism, being ignored, being misunderstood, and mistakes, plus your body signals and coping patterns. I also share clues to help you check in and see if you are ready to reflect, and a reviewing the story template. No specific action was requested beyond reviewing those sections.</description></oembed>