<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/5e5ba93ba80d41e9baf2010636683721&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;640&quot; height=&quot;480&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>480</height><width>640</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>480</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>640</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/5e5ba93ba80d41e9baf2010636683721-09ee5a1a314f5c7e.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>275.11</duration><title>Understanding Masking and Internalized Stigma in Neurodivergent Individuals</title><description>In this video, I discuss the concept of masking, particularly among neurodivergent individuals, and how it develops as a response to social penalties. I highlight that chronic masking can lead to anxiety, depression, fatigue, and neurodivergent burnout, as it increases the neurological load on our nervous systems. I also explore how internalized stigma and shame arise from repeated negative messages we receive from society, which can exacerbate feelings of exhaustion and self-blame. It&apos;s crucial to recognize these patterns and understand their impact on our mental health. I encourage you to reflect on these messages and consider how they may be affecting you.</description></oembed>