<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/6445d0b55e504438bc2da5c5546874c2&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1304&quot; height=&quot;978&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>978</height><width>1304</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>978</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1304</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/6445d0b55e504438bc2da5c5546874c2-701150052d8d244e.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>978.232</duration><title>Built for Adulthood - Quiet Authority Method. Final Version</title><description>This Loom explains the Quiet Authority method for preparing teens ages 13 to 19 for adulthood without constant reminders and managing. It shares Stefania’s personal wake-up call after her mother died in a tragic earthquake, when she realized she had taught her children to depend on her rather than build adult skills. The method is based on three pillars: clarity (C) to replace “too late” guessing with assessment, shape to hand off 2 to 3 skills over time so the house does not fall apart, and shift to hold teens accountable calmly without shaming or micromanaging. Stefania also offers a complimentary 20-minute adulthood prep consult to identify a teen’s top skill gap and the first responsibility to transfer.</description></oembed>