<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/757c1e27bf3c4cc3aaf4da3275f93d82&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/757c1e27bf3c4cc3aaf4da3275f93d82-73c4b317c3b0c792.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>1566.233333</duration><title>Part 4: Why No Contact Isn’t Working (And What Actually Does)</title><description>In this Loom I break down why no contact can hurt your chances to reconnect with your man, and what to do instead. I challenge three myths, the frozen storyline where you pause in a cold emotional tone, the secret clash where you look quiet but energetically you keep clashing, and the hidden revenge where you hope silence will teach or punish him. I explain that energy shifts matter more than scripts, and I share examples of couples who reconnected after changing their energy. Action requested, get my no contact roadmap PDF by messaging JulianAndre coach on Instagram with the keyword road map, or emailing office@julianandrecoaching.com with road map in the subject. Then watch Part 5.</description></oembed>