<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/7d782902adf04a639d0f7bfa7787b117&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/7d782902adf04a639d0f7bfa7787b117-6ae35a324e97144a.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>859.167</duration><title>Why I Resisted Planning and Structure</title><description>This Loom explores the relationship between calendars and planning and how it connects to a father wound and hyper-independence. The speaker describes resisting long-term structure because it feels like control, leading to short notice for live events and always staying “on,” which creates scattered energy and difficulty with clear vision in business and relationships. They share a major shift: the resisted structure is what creates safety, and they are planning a full year with consistent weekly actions and scheduled live events. They also announce a six-week cohort starting August 18 on Tuesdays at 10 a.m. PST, with replays if needed.</description></oembed>