<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/807b05ff3e7f4e21b52820d3a94997a2&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/807b05ff3e7f4e21b52820d3a94997a2-147d3b32222c2e19.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>70.358</duration><title>Maintain Framing</title><description>This Loom discusses the difficulty of recognizing mental health issues in men due to how some people can become fixated or obsessive. The speaker explains that when someone is perceived as beautiful and within reach, it can trigger obsession, especially for those with rough upbringings and trauma. They note that it is hard to identify these behaviors without firsthand experience. They also share that they rarely use gender-neutral bathrooms because their brain questions what could draw attention.</description></oembed>