<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/9d78891443fe41bca148561f07e40b1a&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1704&quot; height=&quot;1278&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1278</height><width>1704</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1278</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1704</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/9d78891443fe41bca148561f07e40b1a-00001.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>143.763</duration><title>Self-Regulation Worksheet</title><description>In this video, I introduce the Self-Regulation Worksheet, a tool designed for concealers, clients, and anyone interested in self-exploration. The worksheet helps individuals identify a behavior they want to self-regulate and provides three questions to guide the process. The first question focuses on reasons that hinder better choices, the second explores the support needed, and the third helps create a self-monitoring strategy. The worksheet is based on the Gestalt therapy approach, emphasizing awareness and personal responsibility. It is best used in the early stages of therapy to identify self-regulation challenges. The worksheet is simple and can be completed quickly, making it convenient for therapy sessions.</description></oembed>