<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/9ddd137d19814910870827a5a13ac3c1&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/9ddd137d19814910870827a5a13ac3c1-14812755a4808aca.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>143.233</duration><title>How do these small groups work?</title><description>This Loom explains how small relationship-healing groups work without requiring people to share personal or “dirty laundry.” The speaker emphasizes that the tools and media approach help participants feel close and seen with little storytelling, and after a few weeks people understand why it works. There is a pause or “tap out” option if someone starts to feel exposed or defensive, and the space is designed to be safe and comfortable. An open-door feedback policy is encouraged so anything that needs changing can be shared, with the goal of serving participants and improving relationships.</description></oembed>