<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/9dff90a4b4074ac3bcb0332dd85b0c81&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/9dff90a4b4074ac3bcb0332dd85b0c81-a01ee26d9d5575e1.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>163.4</duration><title>Internal Boundaries and Self-Care Strategies 🌿</title><description>In this video, I discuss the importance of internal boundaries, specifically focusing on self-care boundaries. I highlight ineffective ways we try to set boundaries, such as shame and guilt, criticism, and relying solely on willpower and motivation. I emphasize the need for compassion, flexibility, and tailored strategies when establishing internal boundaries to avoid feelings of overwhelm and discouragement. At the end, I provide a checklist for practical implementation.</description></oembed>