<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/aceddccdae484429b58b578705fc6f30&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1280&quot; height=&quot;960&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>960</height><width>1280</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>960</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1280</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/aceddccdae484429b58b578705fc6f30-00001.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>195.489</duration><title>Understanding and Overcoming Self-Stigma</title><description>In this video, I discuss the impact of external messages on internal self-stigma, categorizing them into four types: You messages, She messages, Dumb messages, and Societal messages. We delve into how these messages can lead to emotional distress syndrome and the importance of deprogramming these harmful beliefs. It&apos;s crucial to recognize and challenge these false narratives about our worth and value.</description></oembed>