<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/c191b1de2d6d410e87aee6d600395f29&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1280&quot; height=&quot;960&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>960</height><width>1280</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>960</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1280</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/c191b1de2d6d410e87aee6d600395f29-00001.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>110.88</duration><title>Understanding Monotropism 🤔</title><description>Hey there! Today, I want to talk about a concept called monotropism. It&apos;s a theory developed by autistic people to understand autism and ADHD communication. This theory suggests that ADHD and autistic minds work like an interest system where attention gets caught up in interests. Interests pull ADHD and autistic people more strongly than most people. This theory was crafted again by autistic people to help explain how they experience the world. It&apos;s also proven helpful in explaining how you understand conversation, how you communicate about interests, and how you communicate. It&apos;s a very important topic for the public, and I think we should allow the people who are being diagnosed and defined to be defined by them instead of other people.</description></oembed>