<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/c304a239c5ce49bf83bbaccb33702030&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/c304a239c5ce49bf83bbaccb33702030-716562e615286d4c.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>209.7</duration><title>Understanding Self-Care and Setting Boundaries</title><description>In this video, I discuss the importance of self-care and setting boundaries in relation to perfectionism. I explain how self-care involves respecting ourselves by enforcing boundaries with a loving approach, which can lead to maintaining safety and health. I emphasize the need to be firm yet compassionate with our self-critical voice, similar to setting limits with a child. By acknowledging our imperfections and treating ourselves kindly, we can foster growth, resilience, and self-acceptance.</description></oembed>