<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/c84ba7aea477416ba155145d822b8547&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/c84ba7aea477416ba155145d822b8547-1b14d0cbb2e1ab1f.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>152.6</duration><title>Empowering Yourself Through Setting Boundaries 💪</title><description>In this video, I discuss the importance of saying no as a crucial skill in breaking free from people-pleasing behaviors. I highlight how trauma can impact our ability to set boundaries and emphasize the healing journey of learning to say no. Viewers are encouraged to practice self-compassion and understand that setting boundaries is a process that requires gentleness and patience. I also touch on how oppressive systems benefit from our lack of assertiveness and the significance of improving our ability to say no, especially for ADHD women.</description></oembed>