<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/cb979aa139e249cd8415021dc018c4bc&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/cb979aa139e249cd8415021dc018c4bc-05842e07dc2a77a8.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>775.52</duration><title>Part 2 Lesson 2</title><description>This Loom explains how to decide between no contact, limited contact, and when to reach out in a breakup or separation. It emphasizes first identifying who wants no contact, respecting it when he sets the boundary, and avoiding using no contact as a panic tactic or a tool to force a different outcome. The speaker recommends splitting relationship dynamics from co-parenting or shared business duties, and doing no initiation of no contact in cases like shared responsibilities or working together. When he reaches out after a few weeks, she advises staying open and letting him lead, not reopening with questions about why he is not together.</description></oembed>