<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/db068688d273414d93829928d7698ce6&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/db068688d273414d93829928d7698ce6-18018671cf9fd829.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>337.64</duration><title>Self-Compassion Practice: Name, Validate, Be Kind 💛</title><description>In this Loom, I share the second and third self compassion practices. First, when I notice I am having a hard moment, I pause and name what I am experiencing, like feeling overwhelmed or confused. Next, I validate it, like of course I feel this way, because my emotions are real and deserve acceptance before they can be regulated. Then I practice self kindness by choosing kind phrases that feel possible and believable, not fake affirmations. I ask you to try these kind phrases in your workbook.</description></oembed>