<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/df14288427a343cb9585a7e60dea38eb&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/df14288427a343cb9585a7e60dea38eb-acb4dce86f048f3a.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>265.12</duration><title>Embracing Self-Compassion and New Skills for Growth 🌱</title><description>In this video, I want to emphasize that you are not defective and that it&apos;s time to unlearn shame and embrace self-compassion. We will explore how old coping skills, like people-pleasing and emotional masking, developed in response to a lack of support, and I will introduce new skills for self-advocacy and self-awareness. My goal is to help you create a supportive environment where you can tend to your needs and practice self-care. Remember, you don&apos;t have to master everything at once; just start where you are and trust yourself. There’s no specific action requested, but I encourage you to engage with the process as it unfolds.</description></oembed>