<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/dfdcd87b86ff4dabbb23cc86ac2eda8b&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1280&quot; height=&quot;960&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>960</height><width>1280</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>960</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1280</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/dfdcd87b86ff4dabbb23cc86ac2eda8b-1646677836965.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>85</duration><title>to be set in one&apos;s ways</title><description>- Please try to make things work between you and my father.
- He&apos;s too set in his ways to change, so maybe you can try and understand him.
- I&apos;ll try.

to be set in one&apos;s ways - to do the same things every day and to not want to change those habits, e.g. As people get older, they often become set in their ways. (acc. dictionary.cambridge.org)

Over The Top (1987)</description></oembed>