<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><oembed><type>video</type><version>1.0</version><html>&lt;iframe src=&quot;https://www.loom.com/embed/f57122c2ab3d466b8bd61198ae8f91e3&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1440&quot; webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</html><height>1440</height><width>1920</width><provider_name>Loom</provider_name><provider_url>https://www.loom.com</provider_url><thumbnail_height>1440</thumbnail_height><thumbnail_width>1920</thumbnail_width><thumbnail_url>https://cdn.loom.com/sessions/thumbnails/f57122c2ab3d466b8bd61198ae8f91e3-dd53f5f19f6fb8e4.gif</thumbnail_url><duration>155.0387</duration><title>Collaborative Boundaries Discussion</title><description>In this video, I discuss the concept of collaborative boundaries, which involve working together to address issues while maintaining strong relationships. I explain how to recognize the need for boundaries based on feelings and needs, and provide a formula for expressing discomfort and seeking solutions collaboratively. Various scenarios, such as lending money to friends, family, or coworkers, are explored to illustrate setting boundaries while offering help. Action requested: Understand the importance of collaborative boundaries in maintaining relationships and addressing discomfort effectively.</description></oembed>